As we excitedly await the arrival of a
British bundle of joy, I would like to stick my neck out there and predict that
the baby will be a girl.
If the privileged baby is a girl, she will
be born into a developed society where she can potentially become queen one
day, where the fight for equal rights for the sexes continues, but where much
progress has been made. She will be expected to undertake public duties
including engaging in philanthropic and community-based development.
My hope is that she (or he, if it is a
boy), will feel compelled to support women in less privileged positions.
Earlier this week I went to a fantastic talk organised by UN Women and the Australian Institute of International
Affairs- the first in a Youth Event series. A wonderful and truly inspiring
young woman of only 25 years old named Preethi Sandaram spoke of her two years
volunteering through Indicorps in a
village of just 25 houses on the Indo-Pakistani boarder.
Like Preethi, I have seen how some women live in
developing countries through my three months volunteering with Raleigh
International in Borneo. For one third of that time I was part of a team
installing taps in remote village houses so that everyone in the village could
benefit from clean, fresh drinking water from a gravity-fed water filter
system. All of the village men worked in palm oil plantations during the day,
leaving their wives at home to cook, clean and look after their (often many)
children. A few weeks into the project, we discovered a situation where a male
village elder was taking advantage of the fact that these women were on their
own at home during the day without their husbands around. He had been
threatening them with a perang (a large knife), demanding that they pay him a
week’s worth of their husbands wages if they wanted a tap installed. Of course,
this was dealt with as soon as it was discovered. It was explained to all
villagers that no one was to be victimised in such a way and that everyone
could have a tap for free.
This gender discrimination that I
experienced was small-fry compared to Preethi’s experience in a small Indian
village. In her hour-long talk she described how women barely left their homes
at all and certainly did not leave the village. The biggest barrier to their
movement in this post-conflict area was the high threat of violence- especially
sexual violence. Over the two years that Preethi was there, four rapes,
including one gang rape occurred. Speaking to the village women, she discovered
that ‘domestic violence’ was not a concept that they understood there, because
it was so much the norm.
Baby girls born into that village are certainly
not Royal Babies.
Baby girls born into that village are born
into a society where women have a very low status; growing up as young girls they
cannot go to school for the risk of attack, cannot be seen out and certainly
cannot be seen interacting with males. Another factor is that the village is a known
through-way for heroin from Afghanistan- a country that produces around 90% of the
world’s heroin. Many village men are addicts, or alcoholics. Drug smuggling is
one of the highest paid industries men can be in (much better paid than taxi
driving) so the young village boys have that as their greatest aspiration.
Preethi’s work and level of dedication are
nothing short of incredible. During her two years (which in itself
is unbelievably impressive), she set up many schemes to alleviate some of the
issues faced there. At the age of 23 and undertaking the project work largely
alone, Preethi established a new education system where boys and girls could
learn key subjects and sports together. Preethi also established a new fashion
business using the village women’s existing sewing skills. For the latter,
Preethi worked hard to set up bank accounts for these women (which took three
months in itself) and to negotiate with the women’s husbands so that they could
be allowed to travel into the next town to buy textiles and to sell their
garments. Her schemes have gone from strength to strength and have made a huge
positive difference.
With regards to the rapes (this was the
most shocking part of Preethi’s story for me), work is being done to encourage
women to report them, for example through having more female police officers
and educating both male and female officers in handling rape cases
appropriately.
Of course, this village is just one of many
facing similar difficulties not only in India but across other post-conflict
areas around the globe.
My message to the British Royal Baby, male
or female, is: "Welcome! The world is beautiful. Please, as you grow and learn
about our world, make use of your privileged position to help alleviate the pain felt
by less privileged women and girls around the world".